Marriage ... calendar and deadlines! You know, the matrimionio require some organization .. Do not get obsessed with the deadlines!
will tell you that everything must be perfect, but it is not said, many marriages "imperfect" were much more beautiful and more super funny!
Here's a guide is not exhaustive and very personal to the limits:
A year earlier Assuming that you have decided to get married might be worth starting to think to set the date and place of the ceremony.
If you marry in the church started to inform the parish priest at the date and during marriage. Unlike the mayor after hearing.
For brides: do not start thinking now is no time to dress ..:)
9-10 months first
If you set the start date to inform you of the documents to prepare for the marriage banns.
Begin doing a thought at the reception is more difficult than one might expect to find the right one and many are booked for centuries to come.
Ps Did you talk with your family right?
8-9 months before
At this point you should have fixed the date of the ceremony and identified the place of receipt that you like.
It 's time to start thinking perhaps also to the economic side of the story. Try to think what you want (or can) spend on the wedding how many guests you can afford and talk to their families. The next step is to pay the deposit for the reception.
7-8 months before
As for the ceremony: it's time to think about the witnesses, singing, etc. ..
brides can start thinking about the dress, we are sure that many will already carried out ..
well defined the guest list so you can pass a target to those who organized the reception.
The fateful date approaches, if you are suddenly assailed by doubts recommend a look at the section why get married?
Reflection intermediate
Usually at this time you will find that the budget problem is not secondary. They will come unexpected expenses, and of course you want everything to be the best.
What to say? Even if you have a good budget, our advice is: spend it with care anyway. There are things that are worth not skimp and others for which you could spend a fortune without anyone noticing it. This can only know you because you know your guests but do not put on the table if you know the brunello that half of your guests mistaking him for the drink the house wine. I have seen marriages where the garden of the restaurant was filled with fresh flowers everywhere: after half an hour it was dark and the flowers he has not seen more 'no. E-value could be worth your next TV:)
5-6 months before putting
attention to deadlines at this point in history you should have called just about everything for the ceremony and receipt. If you have not yet chosen witnesses, well, it's time to do so.
You can then indulge in Corollaries.
open a wedding list. The family begins to go wild .. Choose a photographer
comparing prices and quality.
think if you want to put flowers, how many and where. You begin to think about investments, how and where to print them. If you go on your honeymoon, get an idea of \u200b\u200bwhere to go and how much to spend.
3-4 months before
's time to buy clothes and pay any outstanding payments (refreshments, flowers, invitations, favors, etc. ..)
If you chose to do honeymoon or other special place in black-controlled documents, vaccinations and visas you need otherwise you will remain in the lobby of the airport.
Do this even if you go to nearby places because with expired documents, or worse no, not traveling (personal experience).
2-3 months before You
exchanging rings right? It 's time to order.
Finalize guest list and start thinking about how to distribute the shares. For the ceremony
think about who should do the readings and any songs. Try to guess who will accompany you and the car of the bride.
The bride should have to define who will do her makeup and hairstyle.
If you chose the photographer, maybe meet him: it may be useful to better understand and define the last details.
If the wedding night will not be at home book a hotel and defined by the operator all the details.
1-2 months before
Send invitations, and start collecting receipts: they will serve to pass the final number of people at the reception.
sure you have done all the necessary documents for the wedding if they do not run for cover!
If you have time to think about what you want to give to witnesses, parents and relatives.
2-3 weeks before
If you met the priest who will marry you, when you get closer to the date and was taken by the swirl of questions is a useful thing:)
Pick up wedding rings and clothes. Ask for a hand to some trusted friend or relative assist you in practical matters because: print the maps for the reception, give a hand to the guests about parking, call the restaurant, etc. .. so you think more for your wedding.
1-2 weeks before
Close the guest list by calling any persons who have not responded. And 'bad practice to tell a strange but that many do not know if it will or not, with the unpleasant economic impact of places paid and not used that will weigh on your budget. Do not be ruthless and all calls to pass a certain number.
Lower this number to a 10-15% are persons who are avendovi said that at the last moment not be attending the reception. Tenetene account.
Giving a hen / stag?
few days before
If you want to hurt you think back to all the details and see if there is everything. Think what you will do a minimum "after" the wedding house? we start? What car will you use? Someone must accompany or be picked up? Etc.. Etc.. You
portfolio, money, documents, etc. ..? Well. Now sit back and think about what you are doing. If you married in a religious confession before the wedding is a great idea.
The D-Day
It 's the big day: Greetings!
If the marriage is in the morning set your alarm (even if you need it).
see the weather and dress accordingly.
Good luck!
